Thursday, February 19, 2015

7 Reasons I Love Japanese Girls and You Should Too


On top of that they have a great media machine creating talent …and pushing it out to all corners of the globe over the past few years. Those who have experience dating Korean girls lament the chasm between the images put out through k-pop and the reality of dating in Korea, though.  I find it really ironic that Korea has managed to create media that connects with and excites the masses in a way that living in Korea …just doesn’t.  In fact, Korea is far more inhospitable to foreigners than Japan is. One of the biggest draws of Japan is the exceptional girls the country has.  Unlike k-pop, if you look at Japanese media and then travel to Japan you will be able to find girls that look and act almost EXACTLY like they do on TV.  Well there are potentially massive downsides to marrying a Japanese girl (you may never see your kids again if you get a divorce, which you’ll probably want to get because over 60% of Japanese marriages are sexless), there are also huge benefits to dating Japanese girls, as well.

1. FUN! FUN! FUN!

You’d be hard pressed to find girls that are more playful than Japanese girls.  Even the hottest ones will make goofy cute faces and funny poses in front of a camera.  Japanese girls love to joke around …and no topic is too taboo to poke fun at.  Sure, they may seem shy at first, but once they open up it’s giggles and funny business all day long.  This obviously means that they really know how to unwind from the stresses of daily life.  They also get into all sorts of niche hobbies and sub-cultures that keep them quirky and your interest sparked.

2. Super Cute

Japanese girls have the cute thing down to an art.  I know of no other country where girls can look so cute and cuddly and so sexually alluring all at the same time.  But don’t get suckered as many a man before you has – Japanese girls are skilled manipulators of men.

3. Super Caring

Your Japanese girl will HAPPILY cook, clean, wash and fold your clothes, do your dishes, and give you a back rub all at the same time!  They’re amazing multi-taskers.  Kidding aside, they really want to please their man, a drive that’s getting rather uncommon around the world these days.  But stay alert! These “submissive” chicks will put you to sleep with their caring so there’s a real danger that you’ll wake up 5 years later married with kids, sexless, and living with her parents! Don’t be fooled.  Many a Western man has married a Japanese girl only to find that all that caring shifted 100% towards the children and he was left to fulfill his role as a walking wallet.  So, be aware that this is a possibility and keep a watch out.  I always like to probe any Japanese girl I’m dating for what her parents relationship is like as a good indicator of whether I can expect her kind, giving behavior to continue.

4. Amazing Fashion

Hair. Nails. Makeup. Whatever your style, Japanese girls have it.  Want super sexy, in heels, tight skirts and lots of skin?  They do that.  Want the sweet, nice, take home to mom look?  They can do that too.  Want blonde hair, and blue eyes?  Yup, they even do that!  Whatever it is you want, you can find a Japanese girl to match your taste.  Girls even hang little charms from their elongated finger nails!  They love to dress well and look their best at all times. …and they love to do it for you.

5. Sex

They love it, or pretend to love it until you work out what really pushes her buttons.  Japanese girls are up for it, so long as the guy they like likes them back.  Some guys are turned off by their sexuality, or lack thereof, saying that they don’t have the porn star moves of western women. But believe me when I tell you that they are willing to learn.  And like in all other areas of life, they are happy to “Ganbaru”, “try my best”, with all the enthusiasm of a little kid opening presents from Santa.

6.  Free Time

One thing that makes Japan a really great country is that there is a lot of variety in terms of how people live their lives.  This is one of the factors that makes it such a fascinating country to watch and to live in.  It never gets boring and even local Japanese media loves to continuously find new sub-cultures to expose and market to. One of the reasons is the large amount of discretionary time that Japanese people(and Japanese girls in particular) have.  Before marriage a large percentage of Japanese girls are students, or hold part time jobs which leaves them with plenty of time to be out and about at cafes, malls, and restaurants in the daytime(interestingly, this pattern of behavior re-emerges after marriage once the kids are in school).

7. They Don’t Need Your Money

What’s more, because it’s totally normal and acceptable for singles to live at home, almost all of the money they make goes directly into their own pockets.  Free room and board(usually), means they live and eat for free or close to it.  That means that the $1,000 or so per month they make working at the local bakery can go directly towards shopping sprees, iPhone accessories, trips, and hobbies which helps to keep Japanese girls looking good, interesting and able to make time for you. So that’s 7 reasons I love Japanese girls.  If you’ve dated Japanese girls before and you have a story to share about why you love Japanese girls too, share it below! (Many commenters felt that this post is dehumanizing to Japanese women, objectifies them and promotes a fetishization of Japanese women.